CONSERVING
A MARITAL RELATIONSHIP/ SAVE YOUR
MARRIAGE
Couples who are attempting to get back
together after a near-divorce event are confronted with the utmost difficulty.
Rebuilding trust and infusing the partnership with love takes introspection,
forgiveness and a great deal of effort and time. Dr. Patel presents the
following points for couples to consider when attempting to
heal a damaged relationship.
Homework:
Write down what you need from your partner.
Dr. Patel asks couples to jot down the 10
things that they would like to see more of (or less of) from their partner.
This exercise can illuminate a number of the misconceptions that couples face.
What are
you doing to infect your relationship?
Each partner carries psychological concerns
(baggages) from the past into the present relationship. Be sure to analyze what
you are bringing into the vibrant as well as looking at what your partner is
doing.
Have you
developed a psychological wall?
Many individuals have unconsciously
developed emotional walls that prevent them from genuinely ending up being
close with their family and friends. As you attempt to reconnect with your
partner, make certain to ask yourself if you have actually blocked yourself off
emotionally from the one you intend to make love with as soon as again. And
keep in mind that you have to knock down your emotional wall-- nobody can do it
for you.
Make an
effort to interact from the heart.
When speaking with your partner,
specifically in a time of crisis, make certain that you are speaking from the
heart and not just saying the words that you believe she or he wishes to hear.
Ask
yourselves if you've ever truly satisfied each other.
It is possible to be married for several
years and still not genuinely understand each other. Many people hide behind
social masks-- a protective procedure that keeps loved ones from actually
comprehending them. Take the time to get to know yourself; it is a procedure
that will ultimately lead to others understanding you.
Dr. Patel presents the following points for
couples to think about when attempting to recover a damaged relationship.
Numerous people have actually automatically
built psychological walls that avoid them from truly ending up being close with
their buddies and family. As you try to reconnect with your partner, be sure to
ask yourself if you have actually blocked yourself off emotionally from the one
you hope to be intimate with when again.
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